Map the preferences between you.

Two people answer the same 30 preference questions, rate how important each issue is, and receive a map of where their relationship preferences align or differ.

Two adults in conversation with intertwined ribbons representing relationship patterns — Two perspectivesSee the pattern between you.

Private by defaultOne device · no account

Answer separately

Partner A completes all questions first. Their answers disappear before Partner B begins.

Rate importance

A difference on something neither person cares about should count less than a difference both consider important.

Discuss the pattern

The result highlights aligned preferences and high-importance differences. It does not predict whether a relationship will succeed.

Private setup

This private version works on one device. Complete both perspectives together without creating an account or sending answers to a server.